Confidential treatment · Colorado
Compulsive sexual behavior runs on secrecy and shame. Treatment here runs on the opposite: honesty, brotherhood, and a clinical team that treats what's underneath, so the pattern doesn't just pause. It heals.
Since 2017Joint Commission accreditedCSAT supervised care
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Naming it honestly
The men we treat aren't predators or punchlines. They're usually capable, respected, often successful men living a second life that costs more every year: more time, more risk, more distance from the people they love. If any of this sounds familiar, you're in the right place.
None of that means you're a bad man. It means a survival strategy has turned on you, and it's treatable.
The thing beneath the thing
In the men we treat, compulsive sexual behavior is rarely the real problem. It's how a man escapes feelings he never learned to feel, and avoids being truly known. We call what's underneath an intimacy disorder, and treating it is the difference between white knuckling and actually healing. If we only took away the behavior, we'd be leaving the engine running.
The Valiant approach
Our clinical team is supervised by founder Michael Dinneen, LCSW, CSAT-S, and includes therapists who specialize in sex addiction and intimacy disorders. This is not a general rehab that also sees sex addiction. It's the center of what we do. Meet the team
Men 26 and older, in a program built to run 90 days: residential treatment to interrupt the pattern, then day treatment and IOP as recovery takes hold and life resumes. We start with 30 days and evaluate honestly from there.
Individual and group therapy, trauma work, and a daily rhythm of movement, meditation, and outdoor experiential therapy in the Colorado wild. Recovery here is something you live, not something you sit through. The Wellness Program
An intimacy disorder is a relationship injury, and it heals relationally. Spouses get education, support, and their own healing track, including Loving Leverage, our founder's approach for families. Betrayal is a trauma here, and we treat it like one.
Straight answers
Clinicians debate the label, but the pattern is unmistakable: preoccupation, escalation, broken promises to stop, and real consequences that keep arriving without the behavior stopping. Whatever name you give that, it responds to specialized treatment. We treat the pattern and, more importantly, what drives it.
Yes, foundationally. Many of the men we treat are professionals with careers, licenses, and reputations to protect, and the program is built accordingly. The first call is confidential too, whether it comes from you or from someone who loves you.
Our full program is 90 days, and that's where we see the best results by a wide margin. Real change to the patterns underneath compulsive behavior takes longer than a month. We start with 30 days, evaluate honestly at that point, and go from there. Most men who begin choose to stay.
Valiant Living is primarily a private pay program, which is what allows us to run the level of clinical care and staff ratios we do. We're out of network with most insurance companies, but we work directly with them on your behalf to maximize whatever coverage is possible. A confidential call is the fastest way to an honest answer about your situation.
Many do, and some come out stronger than they were before the discovery. We can't promise that, and we won't pretend to. What we can promise is that both of you get real treatment: his work on the addiction and what's underneath it, and genuine support for her, because betrayal is a trauma and we treat it like one. Bringing families back together is the entire point of this place.
Secrecy is where this thing lives. One honest call is how it starts to lose.
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