Confidential treatment · Colorado
If quitting were about willpower, you'd have quit already. The deleting, the promising, the going back: that cycle isn't a character flaw. It's a pattern, and patterns can be treated.
Since 2017Joint Commission accreditedCSAT supervised care
Found it on his phone? There's a page written for you
Naming it honestly
Most men who land on this page have already tried to stop, more than once, and mostly alone. What separates a habit from an addiction isn't the hours. It's what the pattern does to you and around you.
None of that makes you a bad man. It means an escape hatch became a cage, and there is a way out of it.
The thing beneath the thing
In the men we treat, compulsive porn use is rarely the real problem. It's how a man escapes feelings he never learned to feel, and avoids being truly known. We call what's underneath an intimacy disorder, and treating it is the difference between white knuckling with a filter app and actually healing. If we only took away the behavior, we'd be leaving the engine running.
The Valiant approach
Our clinical team is supervised by founder Michael Dinneen, LCSW, CSAT-S, and includes therapists who specialize in pornography and sex addiction and the intimacy disorders underneath them. This is the center of what we do, not a sideline. Meet the team
Men 26 and older, in a program built to run 90 days: residential treatment to interrupt the pattern, then day treatment and IOP as recovery takes hold and life resumes. We start with 30 days and evaluate honestly from there.
Individual and group therapy, trauma work, and a daily rhythm of movement, meditation, and outdoor experiential therapy in the Colorado wild. Recovery here is something you live, not something you sit through. The Wellness Program
An intimacy disorder is a relationship injury, and it heals relationally. Spouses get education, support, and their own healing track, including Loving Leverage, our founder's approach for families. Betrayal is a trauma here, and we treat it like one.
Straight answers
Common, yes. But there's a difference between something you choose and something that runs you. The honest test isn't the hours. It's the pattern: hiding it, promising to stop and going back, needing more or riskier material for the same escape, and watching it cost you things you care about. When it passes that test, it deserves real treatment, not another private vow to quit.
Yes, foundationally. Many of the men we treat are professionals with careers, licenses, and reputations to protect, and the program is built accordingly. The first call is confidential too, whether it comes from you or from someone who loves you.
Our full program is 90 days, and that's where we see the best results by a wide margin. Real change to the patterns underneath compulsive behavior takes longer than a month. We start with 30 days, evaluate honestly at that point, and go from there. Most men who begin choose to stay.
Valiant Living is primarily a private pay program, which is what allows us to run the level of clinical care and staff ratios we do. We're out of network with most insurance companies, but we work directly with them on your behalf to maximize whatever coverage is possible. A confidential call is the fastest way to an honest answer about your situation.
She gets real help here too, not a waiting room. Discovery is a trauma, and we treat it like one: education, support, and her own healing track, separate from yours. Recovery that only happens to one person rarely lasts. Bringing families back together is the entire point of this place.
You've quit alone a hundred times. Try once with people who know the way out.
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