Episode Summary

What if the key to healing family wounds lies in the simple act of conversation? Join us for an emotionally charged episode as I sit down with my dad, Gary, to explore the transformative power of fatherhood. With a rich background as a pastor and a deep connection to Southern gospel music, Gary shares his wisdom on the importance of grace and understanding in father-child relationships. Together, we open up about our own experiences, highlighting how fathers can profoundly shape their children’s lives. In a candid discussion, we navigate the deeply emotional terrain of family wounds and reconciliation.

Reflecting on my childhood, including the pain of church splits and my driven nature leading to burnout, we delve into the significant impact these experiences had on my personal and professional life. My dad offers his heartfelt perspective on witnessing my struggles, especially during my disqualification from ministry and rehabilitation. Through our conversation, we underscore the importance of honest and open communication in the healing process. Our dialogue also turns to the role of faith and community in recovery. We scrutinize the shortcomings of modern evangelical churches in addressing issues of brokenness and addiction, contrasting them with the supportive environments found in 12-step programs.

Gary and I discuss the necessity of unconditional love, patience, and prayer in supporting a loved one through recovery. By sharing our journey, we hope to inspire a vision for a church that fully embraces brokenness and offers a pathway to healing, breaking harmful cycles and fostering healthier patterns for future generations.